Excuses/breakups
#1
Posted 25 January 2004 - 04:17 PM
What's the lamest breakup or worst excuse of dating u all ever heard? Like, if u asked out someone, what excuse did they give to tell u "no" or the lamest breakup lines. I know some girls usually say things like, "I just wanna be friends" and etc.
Also what excuses you've given to your ex's.
Hope I'm not opening a closed wound cuz I'm just asking.
maybe we'll learn something from them
#2
Posted 25 January 2004 - 04:30 PM
#3
Posted 25 January 2004 - 04:37 PM
#4
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:01 PM
"Sorry, but i dont date" LMAO.... that scares them off...
well ofcourse if they r closer friends iv said, "well, im sorry but im soo busy right now and i mean your fun and kewl and all, but i just dont have any time,"
Oh and when i am asked by a non-armenian, "I love you and all, but it just wont worjout between our cultures," and thats got to be the worst one to say.. cause when they ask why, I have no answer...... hmmm.. sad,, your right allarmeniangirl jan, this did open wounds.......now im bleeding again...
#5
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:06 PM
#6
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:10 PM
i thought you mentioned somewhere that "sex is great"....ok never mind i asked!!! probably was a nematod liason!!!
#7
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:14 PM
"you've changed." ><
#8
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:19 PM
#9
Posted 25 January 2004 - 09:35 PM
#10
Posted 25 January 2004 - 11:27 PM
Edited by Stormig, 25 January 2004 - 11:27 PM.
#11
Posted 25 January 2004 - 11:45 PM
it wouldn't work out because u date to someday actually marrying that person. I know i wouldn't date anyone who's not armenian because what if i fall in love with that person and then i will be forced to break it off because of the difference in culture. that will hurt me and him.
just my opinion
#12
Posted 25 January 2004 - 11:59 PM
just my opinion
Um, you see I'm all for marrying Armenians, but you just acknowledge that you might fall in love.
"Love" ( rather infatuation ) is not bound by culture or race.
Armenian culture here in the State is changing. Culture is not uniform. You might get along just fine with someone that is not Armenian, for most of your ideas and character is shaped by American culture, whether English, or the schools, or even movies and television.
Moreover, how many people, in their conscience, talk to themselves in Armenian, or English?
#13
Posted 25 January 2004 - 11:59 PM
Then I must be a widow-er. (Not the male form but the chronic one.)
Edited by Stormig, 26 January 2004 - 12:00 AM.
#14
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:03 AM
Edited by angel4hope, 26 January 2004 - 12:04 AM.
#15
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:09 AM
"Love" ( rather infatuation ) is not bound by culture or race.
Armenian culture here in the State is changing. Culture is not uniform. You might get along just fine with someone that is not Armenian, for most of your ideas and character is shaped by American culture, whether English, or the schools, or even movies and television.
Moreover, how many people, in their conscience, talk to themselves in Armenian, or English?
that's the point. that i might get along with the person who is not armenian and will want to continue seeing that person but i knoe that i will never be able to actually marry that person because of our different cultures/nationalities. my parents play a huge role in this too, but i'm sure u know what i'm talking about and i won't go into that.
the part about talking in english, yes of corse, but my significant other might not appreciate my culture's side. sure it will work in the beginning of the relationship/marriage but it will soon fade.
so basically, why put myself through the actual process of dating a non-armenian who i have no intention of marrying?
i don't wanna be heartbroken.
#16
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:13 AM
#17
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:16 AM
yup, got the DVD too
#18
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:39 AM
just my opinion
I wish i hadnt done that,, now i have and i dont know how to get out without hurting feelings...
Oh jigyar dont you feel bad,,,,, its my dumb fault that i let happen what happened... its not like i dont think about it a few hundred times a day anywyas.. l
Stormy jan, trust me i think it'll work out perfectly, but why i dont go for it, if i could answer that question, then i wouldnt be in my situation...
#19
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:57 AM
see....that's what i'm talking about. what's the purpose of dating someone from another culture/nationality etc. if ur gonna have 2 break it off with them sooner or later? just hurts the both of u.
see, we are learning something from this thread
#20
Posted 26 January 2004 - 12:59 AM
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