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#1 elle

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 12:57 AM

Does anyone know of any lawyers who can help an Armenian woman?

There's an Armenian woman in her early 30's who needs desperate help because she's all alone in US, and she's has been here for the last 2-3 years! She has a 1 1/2 year old baby girl and a crazy husband who is from Southeast Asia! I say crazy because he has made her life miserable ever since he brought her to US from Yerevan.
He has treated her like shi.. and now they are in the middle of a lawsuit. She filed for a divorce, but he vowed to get back at her. Today, he filed a lawsuit against her stating that she's mentally unstable (crazy!!!), that she abuses their baby girl, that she yells at him at his friend's house (hence, where her 'craziness' is coming from). The bottom line is that she's really stuck and not sure what to do. Also, she has no relatives in this country, so she's helpless and all alone. Plus, her husband is a monster! His ex-wife confirmed that and also stated that he made her life miserable for years until she got away from him, although he was able to take away their kid from the mother for about 7 years until their son went to live with his mom...the same exact method that he's trying to use on the second wife!
Now he has gone around the neighborhood stating that his wife is crazy, and he asked the neighbors not to listen to her if she goes to them for some kind of a help! He has a half a million dollar car and a $1+ million home, but he only used to give her $200 to spend per week (how sad is that!). Also, he would make a big scandal every time she called her mother in Yerevan! She has no idea how much he's making and any time she signed the IRS papers, he always presented her the last page to sign. This is why she has no idea about his finances because he always keeps it a secret from her. Also, he didn't even let her have a joint checking account. He opened up a separate account under her name and he was transferring about $200/week for her. As you can see, she really needs help and at this point I think that she needs the help of a lawyer for the sole purpose of not loosing her daughter! It's obvious that she can not afford a lawyer since she does not work (hasn't worked a day in US), and she can not afford one with $200. I should also add that her husband tried to kick her out with the BABY from his house a week ago, and threatened to call the police on her. She called the police in the morning herself and the police filed a report on him! The funny thing is that the police told her that it's alright...all the men from that particular country treat their wives the same way!
He's now away from their house until the divorce is settled! I don't know why her husband (the scum) can not get a divorce in a normal way! I don't know why he's making sure that she ends up in a mental institution, and now he's filing a lawsuit to take away the baby from her. She's very helpless and has no money because the husband no longer transfers money to her account.

If you know of Armenian divorce lawyers who can help this woman free of charge and advise her, please inform me and I will have her contact the lawyer. I should also add that she lives in Riverside County. I would really hate to see that scum getting the custody of the baby for no reason. He's doing everything to make her feel miserable...exactly how he treated his first wife! I truly think that this man is not right in the head because what I have writen in here about him, it is only the surface of what he has done.
Are there any Armenian organizations who can assist her some how? She's going to loose her car in near future, which only means that things will get tougher for her. She did speak to a lawyer on the phone once, but it was more of a consultation. All she was told was that she will only get alimony from him and that's all.

Edited by elle, 06 May 2008 - 01:11 AM.


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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:05 AM

Just a crazy question - did she contact the Armenian organizations before she married an ASIAN??? If you get offended from this question don't even reply to it, it's just a joke!!!

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:05 AM

do you personally know this women?
if yes, then any lawyer (if she has a case) would love to take her case.

there are thousands of divorce lawyers in LA who would love to take a case like that, why does it have to be Armenian?

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:12 AM

Ed jan, I think the issue is not in the race of the lawyer, it is the lack of funds the girl has!!!

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:13 AM

QUOTE (Ashot @ May 6 2008, 02:05 AM)
Just a crazy question - did she contact the Armenian organizations before she married an ASIAN??? If you get offended from this question don't even reply to it, it's just a joke!!!


I'll let you know in private what he is! I think I already revealed too much about her, but if I can help her some how then it's worth it!

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:17 AM

QUOTE (Edward @ May 6 2008, 02:05 AM)
do you personally know this women?
if yes, then any lawyer (if she has a case) would love to take her case.

there are thousands of divorce lawyers in LA who would love to take a case like that, why does it have to be Armenian?



Yeah, of course I personally know her. Otherwise, I wouldn't know so much details about her. I think that she will feel more comfortable with an Armenian lawyer due to her English, but she does have a moderate knowledge of English.


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Posted 06 May 2008 - 02:04 AM

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Are there any Armenian organizations who can assist her some how? She's going to loose her car in near future, which only means that things will get tougher for her. She did speak to a lawyer on the phone once, but it was more of a consultation. All she was told was that she will only get alimony from him and that's all.


lav k@lini yete hayeren greq bolort el

@est yerevuyty n@ranq henst internetov el tsanotatsel en

yete chk@ HAykakan iyd tesaki kazmakerputyun ov karrogh e ognel iren, apa kan bazmatov americyan kazmakerputyuner voronq karrogh en yev kognen iren
pastabanneri mets mas@ miyayn mi poqer gumar kuzen skizbi hamar, mnatsats@ et shan wordu janits k@poken.

IRC@ uni bazmativ officner ur na miqan ropeyum yev dzri ( 1 kam 2 tarva hamar ) karrogh e ir andznakan texeri t@ghteri patjener@ stanal

tsavali drutyun e yev yete urish n@patak chka ir hamar iyd mardu het aprelu, chka voch mi janaparh et hayvanin haskatsnelu, yete arden hasel e fizzikakan / annasnakan tsets yev jardi axchik@ iysor yevet pit durs ga iyd mardu tanits ir yerexayin el het@ tani....

yete iydqan kazmakerpvats mi srika e - vstahoren arden ir g@lxi jar@ tesel , prinap + $$$ bavakanin lav pahel e + yerevi arden ir qaghaqi mi sharq ujegh pastabannei iytselel e um ir kin@ o jamanak yev $$$ chini stipvats er linelu gnal hima el iren chen vertsni ... enpes or #1 pastabann e petq, passtaban@ kasi kogni iren gtnelu jisht kazmakerputyun@ yev dzev2 tanits herranalu hamar

vstah em k@gtnven pastabanner ovqer kajaktsen iren


HAmeniyn deps yete mi poqer $$$ karrogh enq ognel iren patrast enq, paymanov vor cash chenq talu iyl v@jarenq pastabannin




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Posted 06 May 2008 - 02:24 AM

Ink@ internetov chi tsanotatsel ail tsanotov..heto et mard@ treler Yerevan. Mi kani orits heto erb asem kzuenam vor moderatorn@ jnjen es mi topic@ kani vor erb advicner stanam et axjka hamar el petk chi lini vor ais topic@ mna...ira masin arden shat info tvetsi personal dra hamar! Prosto es inks tsanot chem nman baneri kani vor arajin angamem lsum sents tipi iravijak u et mardu dzerkner@ kapvatsa maen dzevi vonts arden grelei...

Mard@ takanki mekna...hetakrkir@ naia vor sa arajin depk@ chi sents. Zgatsvuma vor ira personalitina sents ka**ot! Papas pox tvets utelu iran minchev vor tesnenk inch klini, te che urish el mek@ chka. HArevanerits mek@ (miak lav harevan@) imanalov ira vijak@ tvets iran $100 utelu hamar, baits et harevan@ aseler vor da shat vat marda ev aseler vor et axjik@ alarm@ miatsrats pahi amen jamanak ev drner@ pag pahi...Isk mnatsats harevanernel iran chein uzetsel lsel akni vro et takank@ gnatseler tnits tun u astvats menak giti incherer drants asel es axjka dem! Mardel beri urish ergrits stex u nman dzevi het@ verabervi...shizafreniki mekna!

Es kani or@ parzem ink@ incha uzum ani ev inch norutun ka ira mot vor imanam ahstat ete gone mi $100-$200 petk klini consultingi hamar lawyeri het vor gone iran direction tan te inch petka ani....kasem! Vor erkar aprer es ergrum uremn erevi aveli hesht kliner iran es momentin.

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 02:31 AM

Is free lawyerner chkan hech?
Ink@ asets vor ira amusno lawyer@ miat takanki mekner vor@ iran aseler vor datien talis iran...asets vor shat kopiter het@ xosum u vor ete menak gna dataran uremn et lawyer@ iran hum hum kuti....ink@ shat naivni ev parz marda...migutse dra hamarel ira het nman ban exav vortev shat chkaratsav jokel inch shizafreniki heta kapnvel...


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Posted 06 May 2008 - 02:43 AM

Aystegh aveli lav hartsi lutsum karogha lini, yete axchik@ trni Erevan, shutapuyt dzevov, vorits heto hartser@ k@karoghana dimi Mijazgain dataranov. Hayastan@ aveli lav kpashpani ira shaher@ qan te aystegh voreve mi lawyer!!! Sa im kartsiqne, hamozvats chem ays hartsum, sakayn tarberak e!!!

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 10:48 AM

She should do everything in her power to keep the child with her- with the exception of kidnapping. This will later enable her lawyer to substantiate the "status quo" in her favor. Which will be grounds to keep the child with the mother; in simple words, keep thinbgs as they are to serve the best interest of the child.

The fact that she is unemployed and future employment prospects don't look good will not help her situation. At some point she should begin some type of vocational training or some type of part time job. She should make an effort to show the courts that she can care for her child.

The issue of her mental case is not really an issue. A lot of men use that tactic in divorce court. At worst they may mandate a visit with a psychiatric specialist. If she isn't crazy, she has nothing to worry about.

Another thing, no offense intended toward the men... Togh antat police zangi. Yete tan mot ga, togh zangi asi vor vaxenum em irenic. Harkavor chi vochinch ani, miayn motik gal@ heriqa. Reportnernen petq. This will create a paper trail evidencing that he has been harrasing her and she is in fear of him. Sorry but he has started the war, she doesn't have much to play with so she should play dirty. Such is life.


Call the Armenian Bar Association @ 323/ 666-6288. Believe me, they have the funding and the motivation to take on some of these types of cases pro bono (free of charge). And all attorneys in Glendale, Hollywood, etc. know each other. Through the grapevine, someone will be found to help her.

Hope it ends well. It is going to take a long time. Tell her to be strong.




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Posted 06 May 2008 - 10:56 AM

QUOTE (Ashot @ May 6 2008, 12:43 AM)
Aystegh aveli lav hartsi lutsum karogha lini, yete axchik@ trni Erevan, shutapuyt dzevov, vorits heto hartser@ k@karoghana dimi Mijazgain dataranov. Hayastan@ aveli lav kpashpani ira shaher@ qan te aystegh voreve mi lawyer!!! Sa im kartsiqne, hamozvats chem ays hartsum, sakayn tarberak e!!!



Ash jan, @st Califonia orenqin, da amena vat banna vor kara ani. CHI kareli erexun kaghakic herracnel arants amusnu- hor tuyltvutyan. Ira sepakan erexun tanelu hamar kidnappingi hamar iren k@daten yev miangmic hor@ ktan. DA option chi. Yete arants erexu gna, erexun lquma, u dataranin tuyts e talis vor erexuc hrazarvec ir kamqov. Da el option chi.

So gnal@ morraci. Yete erexun het@ tani u porci koren, Hague Convention kicks in. International law. Armenia has a contract w/ US to enforce this law.

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 10:56 AM

QUOTE (Ashot @ May 6 2008, 01:43 AM)
Aystegh aveli lav hartsi lutsum karogha lini, yete axchik@ trni Erevan, shutapuyt dzevov, vorits heto hartser@ k@karoghana dimi Mijazgain dataranov. Hayastan@ aveli lav kpashpani ira shaher@ qan te aystegh voreve mi lawyer!!! Sa im kartsiqne, hamozvats chem ays hartsum, sakayn tarberak e!!!



che aper estegh togh mna - bayst te esor yevet durs ga et t@nits

kan kazmakerputyunner ovqer kognen - dranq et n@pataki hamar en steghtsvats

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 10:57 AM

QUOTE (elle @ May 6 2008, 01:31 AM)
Is free lawyerner chkan hech?
Ink@ asets vor ira amusno lawyer@ miat takanki mekner vor@ iran aseler vor datien talis iran...asets vor shat kopiter het@ xosum u vor ete menak gna dataran uremn et lawyer@ iran hum hum kuti....ink@ shat naivni ev parz marda...migutse dra hamarel ira het nman ban exav vortev shat chkaratsav jokel inch shizafreniki heta kapnvel...




sovorakan mi motetsuma pastabani koghmits

dati k@tan ?? e togh tan


Axchkan pastaban e petq !!! voch te esor iyl yerek !!!

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:45 PM

QUOTE (Ashot @ May 6 2008, 03:43 AM)
Aystegh aveli lav hartsi lutsum karogha lini, yete axchik@ trni Erevan, shutapuyt dzevov, vorits heto hartser@ k@karoghana dimi Mijazgain dataranov. Hayastan@ aveli lav kpashpani ira shaher@ qan te aystegh voreve mi lawyer!!! Sa im kartsiqne, hamozvats chem ays hartsum, sakayn tarberak e!!!



Isk ira mard@ ba chpiti tuilatrutun ta erexun ergrits durs hanelu? Parza vor chi toxni...es lselem vor minchev 18 tarekan anchapahasnerin piti hayr@ ok ta vor ergrits mayr@ durs tani.

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:46 PM

QUOTE (elle @ May 6 2008, 12:45 PM)
Isk ira mard@ ba chpiti tuilatrutun ta erexun ergrits durs hanelu? Parza vor chi toxni...es lselem vor minchev 18 tarekan anchapahasnerin piti hayr@ ok ta vor ergrits mayr@ durs tani.



ayo...anpayman petqa iravunq ta...ete "restraining order" chka...

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:53 PM

QUOTE (elle @ May 6 2008, 11:45 AM)
Isk ira mard@ ba chpiti tuilatrutun ta erexun ergrits durs hanelu? Parza vor chi toxni...es lselem vor minchev 18 tarekan anchapahasnerin piti hayr@ ok ta vor ergrits mayr@ durs tani.




vochmi depqum ch@toghnes USA'its durs ga
toghma / djvar k@lini sakayn ir iravunqner@ iysteghits shat aveli lav karrogh e pashtpani - menak te lav pastaban lini

qano vro et srikan arden aveli shutvanist patrastvel e iys amen inchin mi qich djvar e linelu, sakayn inq@ ir iravunqi mej e manavand yete nor yekats e yev angleren lezvin lav chi tirapetum

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:54 PM

American Bar Associationi hamar@ ktam iran anpaiman!
Problem@ aina vor ete ira dzerkits mekel erexun vertsni et takank@ uremn ink@ voch mi aliment chi stana ev iran djvar klini skzbum financnerov. Isk ete erexun dzerkits chvertsnen ev dat@ voroshum kaiatsni vor hayr@ piti alimentner mutsi uremn gone tents kara ira glux@ pahi u koxkitsel ashxati!

I hope he rots in hell! Takankneri masin shatem lsel, baits nman takanki masin hl@ voch! Hetakrkir@ aina vor ink@ ski ira pokr erexun chiel sirum. Voch mi hayrakan emotion chi tsuits tver ira handep ev et hay axjiknel indz asela dra masin vor shat antarbera. Orinak ete erexen latsuma, et takank@ asuma vor stexits tar, kam vor menak seniakum toxes chi merni! Tentsel artahaitvuma, u indz tvuma vor kani vor ira tandzin chi es erexen, ink@ prosto uzuma vatutun arats lini kngan u erexun vertsni dzerits vonts da aretsi ira arajin knga handep! Chem patkeratsnum te vontsa pahelu menakov et pokr erexun kani vor voch attach exatsa iran vochel...shat shat babysitter piti hire ani ev erexen metsana voch horov vochel mayrov. Anasun@ misht anasunel kmna!










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Posted 06 May 2008 - 01:58 PM

hiam dra heta aprum te arden arandzina ??

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Posted 06 May 2008 - 02:03 PM

QUOTE (MosJan @ May 6 2008, 02:58 PM)
hiam dra heta aprum te arden arandzina ??



Es 1 shabata erb krvetsin norist, et esh@ iran threat arets vor mtom du gijes ev kez gjanotsem uxarkeu. Heto normalatsan et gisher en banov vor txamard@ hangstatsav mikich u aravot@ erb gnats gortsi, axjik@ zangets Police kanchets. Police@ asets vor foodstamperov kognen iran u asets te inchkam jamanakoves uzum vor et takank@ tnits herana...et axjik@ asets 5 orov, heto sargets 22 or. Hima et txamard@ tan@ chi mnum. Baits vonts arden asetsi, erek et takanki laywer@ zangets et axjkan u shat vat dzevi ira het xosats, u asets vor mardt datia tvel kez u kani ej reportnera vret grel! U naiev et jamanaker asets vor erexu custody uzuma ira vra vertsni. So hima tan@ chi aprum, u harevan@ iran (et axjkan) zgushatrets vor dranits ameninch spasvuma u vor tan drner@ pag pahi.
ET axjik@ tesela irants garajum vor et himar@ tariner araj vontsa gorts batsel ira arajin knga vra u diary-a pahel grelov et knga amen mi kailer@...orinak kanisin ekav, kanisin gnats tnits, jam@ kanisin hats kerav, es kam en jamin knik@ inch asets ev ailn...asumem vor hivandi mekna paranoid exats! Arden 10+ taria bajanvatsa, baits et txter@ ira...et diary-n pahela garajum smile.gif






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