At the beginning just want to apologize for language mistakes.
I have problem and I need advice from ppl who have experience.
Im with armenian guy, he's older than me 11 years, he lives in Poland 5 years now. In june he needs to back to his country.
We met more than 6 months ago and we are couple 6 months. I just felt in love with this amazing man. We got engagement and we were planing wedding in next 2 or 3 months...
Everythin was great till he had his own flat but after he moved to his sister house and everything started changing...
We just fight and fight and everyday almost I cry. It's horrible!
Whatever his sister says he does, he cannt live without this family, they are the most important in the world and me his future wife ????whatever I say he just forgetsor doesnt follow at all.... only when we fight he takes things serious...I just dont understand why....
I heard lot of bad things about armenian but I wish hear something good, are there any mixed couples , happy wifes who can share with me how to solve problems?but im not saying about armenian girls just about armenian-different nationality relationships.
becausue I have heard armenian girls opinions...and Im not armenian. Im polish girl, here everything is different and I didnt grow up in armenian culture.
The man that I love I cant leave....even though we got many problems.
Last time he said he won't help me in house even if i have kids and many stuffs t odo because this is girls job, only when we are alone I can ask him for help. When he invite friends I need to serve for them and do not ask him even to bring tea from the kitchen.
Here in Poland in relationships we share everything , we help each others, share not only love but everydays life. Polish girls are so independent and energetic always have something to say but we also love so much and take care of our men with all love we have.
I unerstand he is not polish and he will never be and I know I have to go for compromises. But I think he want me to became exactly like armenian girl and this is immposible for me. Something what is normal and obvious for armenina for me it can me strange and unnormal.
We both have to make some changes in us.
But I will never understand why his family is more important and I heard it always be...Is it right?
Please I need opisions, advice, some tips how to understand this man....
Edited by PolishGirl, 05 February 2013 - 03:01 AM.