QUOTE (Ashot @ Apr 30 2008, 03:47 PM)
1) you're somewhere and guy walks up to you and tries to flirt with, get your number and ask you out for a date - will you be positive about this?
2) you're going out with a "girl" eventually you find out it's a guy - how positive will you be about this?
Ok for #1, it has happened and it has never really been a problem. Actually it's kind of nice to have someone hit on you as it rarely happens for regular guys
I will admit that I have actually gotten free stuff from gay cashiers or waiters like at fast food places (like free fries or coke) or restaurants and it really didn't bother me. I usually make it very clear right away that I am not gay so not to mislead anyone but after that, if they still feel like flirting, no complaints from me. Of course I have never been in a situation where things have gotten rude or obscene. I see it happen to girls all the time where some guys just get really annoying and just downright rude. That would bother me but typically I can be intimidating enough (5'11'' 270lb is not something people take 'lightly'
) that it has not been a problem.
... hmmm or maybe I'm not attractive enough even to the gays?
2. Going out with a girl?
You do realize I'm into computers and stuff right?
J/k ... #2 would REALLY suck if the "girl" had intentially been misleading about it. If it was a topic that just really never came up, then I wouldn't be as offended but if the persion intentionally tried very hard to avoid the topic or hide the fact, then I'd probably not be very happy about it.
Now if you are asking me if I am open to possibly being with someone that had sex change at some point in the past ... not sure. I think it passes my boobs-to-testicles ratio test but of course for a relationship to form, a lot more comes into play. So I don't know.
Edited by Sip, 30 April 2008 - 03:57 PM.