QUOTE (Sulamita @ Jan 3 2005, 02:31 AM)
QUOTE (Siamanto @ Jan 2 2005, 05:15 PM)
I love the - polluted - air that I breath and I obviously depend on it. Shall I stop breathing?
First of all, you don't
depend on polluted air, you get
used to it.
When in love, you
depend on the other person for emotional nourishment (as stated above).
In a
loveless relationship you simply become
used to the other person.
Sulamita,
I know that my statement was somehow "open ended," but I have to say that your interpretation is not even close to what I intented to mean!
QUOTE (Sulamita @ Jan 3 2005, 02:38 AM)
Please, do take the time ...
... and it is not inevitable in my opinion.
I will, but not anytime soon! Sorry!
QUOTE (Sulamita @ Jan 3 2005, 02:38 AM)
Thanx for the "advise" but when I think too hard I get a headache.
Another "advice:"
Humor is the oxygen of the mind, it helps fighting "migraines" and recommended for a longer life: 100, 101!
QUOTE (Sulamita @ Jan 3 2005, 02:38 AM)
intense, true and often explosive don't translate to LOVE do they?
It is NOT meant to mean that " intense, true and often explosive do translate to LOVE ." Not at all! That was simply a descriptive BACKGROUND!
The emphasis was on:
"We both have strong and independent minded...personalities/selves, yet the "transition" has NEVER been smooth, even on the n-th iteration!"
As a reply to your statement:
QUOTE (Sulamita @ Jan 2 2005, 07:42 PM)
It's an internal crisis you deal with on your own. The stronger your "self" is ... the smoother is the transition.