Infertile Women?
#1
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:15 PM
#2
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:42 PM
#3
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:45 PM
Are you sure he was the problem? If not, can I have her number?
#4
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:48 PM
#5
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:48 PM
#6
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:51 PM
Of course not... even if SHE were the one who had the problem.... marriage is not about having kids, it's about love, respect, and commitment. You say so when you get married in church... It is stupid to leave your wife just cos she can't bear your kid.... not to mention, very rude.... One of the few things I'm completely intolerant of. Go adopt a kid, there are lots of orphanages out there, you'd be doing good for a human being, at least, instead of selfishly seeking to multiply your genes.
That's the classic example of how Armenian in-laws brainwash either the man or the woman in the couple (mostly the man, cos most of the time the wife is in no position to leave her husband) and create such problems with those myths about how if there's a problem with not being able to have kids, it's always the woman's problem... i've heard too many such stories... f***ing materialistic idiots. And those are the same people who go around on crusades in the name of Armenian traditions.. More like Armenian stupidity. It's about time that we see the difference between ignorance/illiteracy and Armenian "traditions"/culture...
#7
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:51 PM
Disclaimer: Please.. this is my personal opinion.
#8
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:55 PM
Disclaimer: Please.. this is my personal opinion.
Right no ape~! Stand by your wo-man...
#9
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:55 PM
no it's not, and i'm gonna bash you for it... ok ok, kidding dude!
and lol Sip...
#10
Posted 09 January 2004 - 04:56 PM
#11
Posted 09 January 2004 - 05:05 PM
wait till Davo replies to this.. *puts his halo on*
#12
Posted 12 January 2004 - 09:06 AM
#13
Posted 12 January 2004 - 10:47 AM
#14
Posted 12 January 2004 - 11:09 AM
But, knowing myself, I'd probably be co-habiting with someone for a while, then deciding we wanted a baby, then getting the test result confirming such, and get married then. I personally see no point in marriage unless it's about kids.
#15
Posted 12 January 2004 - 11:28 AM
really?
i wanna get married not because i want to have babies but because i wanna spend my life with the person i love the most... in the end your kids are gonna grow up and leave and it's gonna be just the 2 of you again...
so when a man leaves you because you can't give him babies then he doesn't really give a damn about you... and in most Armenian families when the girl doesn't get pregnant during the first few months of marriage her parents and in-laws and even relatives start freaking out...asking is she pregnant yet? is she pregnant yet??? are you pregnant yet??? when are you gonna get pregnant???! what's the big deal maybe she doesn't want babies right away... it's like you have to have a baby ASAP to show you're not infertile or something.
#16
Posted 12 January 2004 - 11:43 AM
I think a man or woman is free to leave in a case like this. Ofcourse there are options as adoption or something. A child is a miracle that is so special that you can`t stop someone from having the wish to have one. For me it would be a very difficult decission. I hope to marry the girl/woman of my dreams and to have the family of my dreams. In my opinion a family is more then only man and wife. I want a child that has my blood. I`m not sure if I would leave my wife in this case but I would take it in considderation.
#17
Posted 12 January 2004 - 11:48 AM
#18
Posted 12 January 2004 - 11:52 AM
Armenian relatives need to be ignored once in a while
#19
Posted 12 January 2004 - 01:18 PM
i wanna get married not because i want to have babies but because i wanna spend my life with the person i love the most... in the end your kids are gonna grow up and leave and it's gonna be just the 2 of you again...
See, this is what I don't get - what's keeping you from spending your years, your lifetime, with someone? Why all the contraptions? Is it a trap for either side to secure alimony, inheritance, etc.? Why the insecurity? If something goes wrong, normally you would break up, but with marriage you actually have to go through divorce and third parties and lawyers butting in, the whole process, etc. Things can go wrong when you have children, too, but in that situation it's a step worth being taken for the sake of the future and rights of the children.
#20
Posted 12 January 2004 - 04:25 PM
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