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[Azat]

hmmmmm. if that is the case tan i wonder why most guys are delaying and delaying marriage.

[Takoush]

No really.  all jokes aside, I want a relationship where things are 50/50 with some give and take.

You're supposed to say "I want a relationship where things are 100/100 with some give and take", that's a much better way of saying.

[Takoush]

Oooh, that's what I want too. I thought I was the only one who got annoyed about having to charge the cell phone almost every other day.

I suggest you utilize a headset and do not put the phone constantly close to your head. Somewhere in Denmark or Sweden they have proved that it has radioactivity in the cellphones. It's better to be safe than sorry.

[Azat]

You're supposed to say "I want a relationship where things are 100/100 with some give and take", that's a much better way of saying.

so true.

[Bakersfieldian]

Every time I see this topic I keep thinking about what Rodney Dangerfield said:

"Marriage? Why don't I just save myself the trouble and find somebody I hate and give her half of what I own".

[Takoush]

Consider this when you meet a beautiful and a smart girl that you want to propose to.

Կերդաս մեր հայրենիքի լեռները եւ ձենով օհանին պէս մէկ լեռէն միւսը կամ մէկ գիւղէն միւսը կը պոռաս։

"Աղչի ձեր տուն մեր տուն հարս կ՛ուգա՞ս"




Anahid

[Azat]

Would you guyz think of romantic ways to propose for marriage?
Something nice!

i got the perfect way to propose Armjan. But beforehand you must do something.
1. you have to watch 2-3 episodes of "Bridezilla". Its on some cable station. I know you girlfriend is wonderful but you need to know what she will become between the time you propose and marriage.
2. then you have couple of good years after marriage. but to prepare for the next stage of your life you need to watch 2-3 episodes of "Super Nanny". you know to be prepared for the next 10 years of your life with screams and yelling and no sex as your wife will be too tired and will have no sex drive.
3. now it is time to watch Dr. Phil where women come and blame the husband for everything and the audience and dr Phil agree. guess what this is going to happen to you too.

i dont want to tell you about your son doing drugs and daughter running away with the rock and roll singer and how they continue to call you when you are 65 to "borrow" some money while you have to work till 85 to be able to afford to retire.

tell me when you are ready to propose so i can tell you this great way to do it.

Edited by Azat, 24 September 2005 - 05:54 PM.

[Takoush]

Oh Azat:

Your full of it. Stop discouraging Armjan. He loves this girl and he doesn't need any discouraging words from you or anybody else for that matter. Leave him be.

Armjan:

A marriage would be a successful one for the rest of your life; when you keep up the civil communication between the two of you, when nobody will be the boss except the two of you together, when you resolve your differences also having the other person's feelings and point of views in mind, that is resolving it compassionately and selflessly, when you act with each other as if you met each other for the very first time and would never take each other for granted, when neither one of you astray with other men or women, that means always be highly moral and ethical couple and after that have complete faith in each other, when you show love, compassion and empathy towards one another, when both of you keep up the good sex drive alive for always, even when you're tired, when you consider each other the number one party, that is above both your families, your parents and siblings or your friends, when you work at your marriage all your life and make sure that you grow with each other, when you consider each other to be your best friends, have a few hobbies together, and spend more time cultivating those hobbies together than with any of your other friends, and finally make sure that you pray together and as often as you possibly can.

Keep this list on your refrigerator door, live by it, and voila I assure you that you will have a healthy and a happy marriage!

Love to you both and good luck to you,

Anahid Takouhi

Edited by Anahid Takouhi, 26 September 2005 - 07:08 AM.

[Harut]

... when you act democratically between you two...

what's democracy in relationship? majority rules?

[Azat]

I was not discouraging him... I was just telling him to watch a few TV shows.

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BTW: I'm just kidding around.

[Takoush]

what's democracy in relationship? majority rules?

I guess the word democracy doesn't exactly go here; but in a nutshell I was trying to say for two people to have a give and take attitude, and to work it out any of their differences if there will be any but compassionately, rather than sellfishly and authoritatively.

P.S. Harut: Now my whole list has been amended and it's complete. Please read it over above. Thank you.

Edited by Anahid Takouhi, 26 September 2005 - 07:05 AM.